We both tied our long hair into a knot 1
I heard that where there are women, there will be fights.
This is the case with Su Lele, Bai Jingran, Tang Xiaoyan, and Lan Tu in "What Are We Left With Then" and Shen Muxi, Su Nai, and Xiao Anning in "You Once Looked Up to Me as the World" as well.
This is the kind of plot that I and many of my friends have written in their novels.
No, we don't have to fight.
I don't want to fight with anyone today, and I don't want to fall out with my true friends.
I know two girls who have a very good relationship, but they are always fighting.
"XX, if you are so fat, stop eating junk food!"
"Little bitch! Did you use the last drop of my toner? Buy me a bottle now!" "Can you be a little more shameless? You are the most beautiful, you are the best looking! You only photoshop yourself and not me?" "Can you stop crying? I advise you to break up, not make up, and you want me to comfort you because you like a scumbag?"
"If you can get into graduate school, I can book the most upscale restaurant in the city for you to celebrate! It's up to you whether you want to gamble or not."
That's it, love and hate.
I have received many letters from readers who asked me about their confusions about relationships. In the tide of secret love, there are also many secrets about friendship.
They always ask me: "What should I do in this situation? Are we good friends?" They always ask me: "Why does she treat me like this when I treat her as my best friend?"
True friends don’t need to accommodate and tolerate all the time. They dare to face their own shortcomings and each other’s shortcomings. They know that neither of us is perfect, but they are still willing to accompany each other.
True friends understand and sympathize with each other. After quarrels and frictions, they will gain more precious and profound feelings.
May you and your loved one, after going through the trials and tribulations, be able to walk to the end of your life together like lovers growing old together.
Jiajia and Doudou have known each other for a long time.
Jiajia's full name is Wu Jiayi, and Doudou's name is Mai Doudou. The names sound very different, but they became best friends. They have been together since junior high school, until they were old enough to get married.
Doudou was a very inconspicuous student in junior high school. She had dark skin, short hair, dull single eyelids, and carried a worn-out gray cloth schoolbag all day long. Her grades in all subjects were terrible, except for math, where she ranked first in the class. Therefore, when all the teachers gave up on her, the math teacher treated her like a treasure.
Jiajia was different. She had lived a wealthy life since childhood and was well taken care of by her parents. She had excellent grades, a likable personality, and various talents. She was always singled out and praised by the teacher. Every time she was praised, Doudou would glance at her faintly in the corner, then snort and turn his head to the window.
Doudou has known Jiajia for a long time.
Doudou and Jiajia live only one street apart. Jiajia lives in a high-end residential area, while Doudou lives in a demolished house. Doudou doesn't like the tall building, and she dislikes Jiajia even more. She thinks the residents on her street are the most friendly. She likes to smell the fishy smell of the fishmongers on both sides of the street because her father also sells fish.
Once, Jia Jia's mother brought Jia Jia to buy fish. Dou Dou felt very upset when he saw Jia Jia covering her nose all the way and looking like she was about to vomit.
If you don't like the smell, don't buy it here.
After Dad packed the fish for Jiajia's mother, Doudou walked out of the house slowly and said, "Dad, can you please not sell fish to them in the future?"
Dad wiped his sweat and asked, "Why?"
"I don't like that little girl." Doudou said with a frown.
Dad felt a little embarrassed after hearing this, because Doudou herself is also a little girl.
But Doudou really doesn’t like Jiajia, she thinks she is too pampered!
During the physical education class, Jia Jia couldn't run anymore after running two laps. Then Dou Dou passed by her like the wind. What she was thinking was: Little princess, let me show you how I came in first place!
Jia Jia, who has excellent grades, always fails in math, but Dou Dou always holds his head high when he walks down from the podium with a perfect test paper.
Every time the school has a general cleaning, Jia Jia fails to handle the things she is responsible for well. Dou Dou always looks at her with disdain and tells the teacher that in the future, Jia Jia will be in the group but she will not be.
Jiajia felt very aggrieved. Why did everyone like her except Doudou?
Jiajia's good friend comforted Jiajia and said that Doudou was that kind of person and she should not be bothered with. You see, she always did her own thing and had no friends in the class. She was a weird person.
But even though they said that, Jia Jia was still very envious of Dou Dou.
Doudou is so good at math that he can sometimes get first place in the whole grade; Doudou is also so good at sports that every sports event makes the boys applaud and cheer; Doudou can also ride a bicycle, and every time Jiajia sees Doudou riding a bicycle on the school bus, she feels very envious.
She is a pampered little princess, and Doudou is a female warrior who has experienced many hardships.
So, she was particularly envious of Doudou.
Once, Jia Jia failed in math again.
When school was over, everyone had left, but Jia Jia was still chewing on the tip of her pen, staring at the bright red "69" on the test paper, but she couldn't solve the wrong questions no matter how hard she tried.
Doudou was sweating after running on the playground. When he returned to the classroom to get his schoolbag, he saw Jiajia with her head down, tears falling on the test paper.
"Crybaby." Doudou felt that his luck was extremely bad. As soon as he returned to the classroom, he saw the little girl crying. He couldn't help but complain and walked towards his seat.
Jia Jia raised her head, tears wetting her thick and curly eyelashes. She stared blankly at Dou Dou picking up his schoolbag and walking outside, and finally stood up when Dou Dou reached the door.
"I'm not a crybaby, Mai Doudou!" Jia Jia called out to her.
Doudou turned his head away, his eyes full of contempt: "If you are not a crybaby, what are you? It's just that I didn't do well in the math test. Is it that serious? I didn't do well in other tests except math, and I didn't cry like you. You are such a delicate princess!"
After saying that, she left the classroom without looking back.
It was then that Jia Jia realized that Dou Dou not only disliked her, but also hated her.
Jia Jia, who has always been the center of attention, was disliked by others. She was panicking, fearing that she had not done well enough. Because her parents taught her since she was a child to get along well with classmates, and if someone disliked you, you should reflect on whether there was something wrong with you.
At such a young age, she may not know that it is very difficult to make everyone like her.
Jiajia never thought that there would be a day when the relationship between her and Doudou would ease.
In the second grade physical education class, the classmates were practicing pole vaulting. Doudou became the first girl to jump over the pole. When she fell on the mat, she felt her butt was wet, so she reached out and wiped it, and found blood on her fingers.
So she raised her hand and reported to the teacher: "Teacher, my butt is bleeding."
The young male teacher's face flushed, and he was a little overwhelmed. Some of the girls in the school also covered their faces and laughed, huddled together, and no one was too embarrassed to say anything.
Only Jia Jia, only Jia Jia ran over, grabbed Dou Dou's raised wrist and said to her, "Stupid, stop yelling." Then, she grabbed her hand and dragged her into the bathroom.
Doudou tried to break free and asked, "Crybaby, where are you taking me?"
"Your pants are dirty, don't you want to change them?" Jia Jia dragged her away.
When they arrived at the restroom, Doudou took off her pants and screamed, "Ah, why am I bleeding?" Jiajia blushed and took out a sanitary napkin from her pocket, unwrapped it, and put it on Doudou's underwear, saying, "This is your period, all girls have it."
Doudou looked confused: "What is menstruation?"
"Put on your pants." Jia Jia said.
Dou Dou nodded and put on her pants. Then she shuddered and said, "It seems to be bleeding again." "Can you please stop saying 'bleeding again' in the future? You are so old now, didn't your mother teach you this knowledge?" Jia Jia said.
Doudou thought for a moment and said, "My mother died a long time ago."
Jia Jia was stunned. She didn’t know. Not only did she not know, it seemed that the whole class didn’t know that Dou Dou’s mother had passed away.
After thinking for a while, Jiajia said, "I'll ask the teacher for leave, and I'll take you home to change your pants." Doudou touched his sticky pants and felt that he really needed to change them, so he listened to Jiajia this time. After asking for leave from the teacher, Jiajia tied her school uniform around Doudou's waist and took him home.
Doudou discovered that this time when Jiajia passed by the street where fish were sold, she did not cover her nose.
When they arrived at Doudou's home, Jiajia boiled hot water for her to take a bath and found her some clean pants to change into.
As Doudou was putting on his pants, he said, "You are a little princess, and you can actually boil water, just like my mom."
"I don't know how to do it either. I saw my mother do it before, and I remembered it." Jia Jia sat aside and poured hot water for Dou Dou to drink.
Doudou turned his head and looked back at the mirror, holding his butt, and asked Jiajia: "When will this thing end?"
Jia Jia put down the hot water and said, "Who told you to only study math seriously and fall asleep in biology class? Where's your biology book?"
Doudou thought for a while, asked Jiajia to stand up, and then lifted the bed a little, and asked Jiajia to take out the biology book that was used as a cushion for the bed legs. Jiajia sighed, but still opened the biology book and explained the relevant physiological knowledge to Doudou.
That lecture was probably the most serious one Doudou had ever attended except for mathematics. It turned out that the cute little princess knew quite a lot.
Although that encounter did not make Jia Jia and Dou Dou become good friends, Dou Dou no longer called Jia Jia a crybaby and no longer had the same hostility towards her as before.
Their relationship is like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold.
After graduating from junior high school, they were admitted to the same high school, the rocket class for liberal arts and the parallel class for science. Both of them had their own lives and studies, so they seldom interacted with each other.
In high school, the lives of these two people seemed to have changed dramatically. The wonderful Jiajia couldn't make a single friend in the Rocket Class. Everyone was busy studying and looked at the blackboard when they looked up. But Doudou got along well with the boys and girls in the parallel class. She had the best math grades, and the poor students in the class always liked to copy her homework, and she didn't refuse. In her words, she was so good at math anyway, even if the teacher found out about the copying of homework, the teacher would believe that she had done it herself and others had copied hers.
She never cares about these "worldly" things and is very open-minded at such a young age.
On the other hand, Jia Jia always makes herself nervous because she is in a tense learning environment. The more nervous she is, the worse she sleeps, and her studies are not as easy as before. She feels a little overwhelmed.
She wanted to take the initiative to interact with her classmates, but they ignored her. She felt suffocated in such an atmosphere.
One day, Jiajia was taking out a textbook from her desk, but she took out a pink envelope. Seeing the four crooked words "To Wu Jiayi" on the envelope, Jiajia's face turned red.
She didn't listen to a word of that class.
After class, Jia Jia hid the envelope in the sleeve of her school uniform and ran to the most secret place to open it. The contents of the letter made Jia Jia's face blossom with joy:
Wu Jiayi:
I am Feizhou from Grade 1 (6). I have always admired you for a long time. That is not what I meant. I just admire you. How can I put it? I am not good at expressing myself. I am afraid that I will say something wrong and make you misunderstand me, and make you think that I have ulterior motives.
I...can we be friends? I'll wait for you at the school gate after school today, okay?
After reading the letter, Jia Jia nervously folded the envelope and put it in the deepest part of her pocket.
He said he was waiting for her at the school gate, should she go meet him? But she didn't even know what he looked like.
Forget it, let’s not go. Jia Jia thought to herself, it would be bad if someone saw me and misunderstood me.
But she would still pass by the school gate after school in the afternoon.
The setting sun at that time made the white tiles of the teaching building emit a beautiful golden glow. Under the red gate, the boy in school uniform occasionally scratched his hair and looked in the direction of the teaching building.
He was a little nervous, and even his legs were shaking.
Jia Jia hid aside and never went out. She was also nervous, and her palms were full of sweat as she held the straps of her school bag.
When all the classmates had left, Feizhou was discouraged and hung his head, thinking that Jiajia would never come. He stood alone at the school gate for a long time, then slowly turned around.
"Hello." A slight breeze blew the girl's skirt.
Feizhou turned around and saw the girl standing in the afterglow, a hint of sunset color slowly appearing on her face.
Jia Jia scratched the back of her head, with an awkward expression on her face. When she saw him leaving, she couldn't help but stand out. She always felt that it was rude to let others stand here and wait for so long. No matter what answer she wanted to give him, she should come out and make it clear.
There was no one around, the leaves were rustling in the wind, and the young boys and girls were blushing and at a loss.
Jia Jia grabbed her skirt and asked in a low voice: "You...what do you admire about me?"
She was very curious, as she didn't stand out at all in her new learning environment.
Feizhou didn't dare to look at her, his eyes kept glancing around: "Didn't you...didn't you revise a manuscript for the school radio station once?"
Is that so?
Jia Jia remembered.
One day shortly after school started, she was watering the plants on the rooftop. When she went downstairs, she saw two girls at the corner, struggling with a manuscript.
The senior from the school radio station disliked the script and asked them to revise it before giving it to her, otherwise they would not broadcast it. But the two girls didn't know how to revise it. Seeing that there was still time, Jia Jia took the initiative to help revise the script.
Later, Feizhou, who was helping the school radio station move equipment, heard two girls discussing Jia Jia's good points. When he heard the content of the manuscript, he became a little interested in this girl he had never met.
Feizhou is a boy with very poor grades, but he has a dream of becoming a martial arts writer. When he has nothing to do, he puts a homework book under his textbook and writes his own martial arts stories on it. Therefore, he likes all people with good writing skills.
After Jia Jia learned the reason, she breathed a sigh of relief and was no longer as nervous as before.
Because of this brave letter, Jia Jia made her first friend in high school, Feizhou. But she didn't know that Feizhou was also Doudou's good friend.
Noticing that Feizhou always liked to be with pretty girls, Doudou grabbed Feizhou by the collar and threw him against the wall, asking, "Da Mi Zhou! Tell me, are you in a premature love relationship?"
Feizhou pulled at his collar and glared at her: "Mai Doudou, are you sick?"
Doudou put his hands on his waist and said, "No premature love!"
Feizhou glared at her again: "Who is in love early?"
Doudou said, "You're not in a premature relationship, so why are you so close to Wu Jiayi from Class 1?"
Feizhou poked Doudou's forehead and said, "Mai Doudou, are you crazy? Is being close to a girl considered premature love? What are you thinking about?"
Doudou retorted: "Da Mi Zhou, you don't blush or feel reserved when you're with other girls, but when you're with Wu Jiayi, you become a young wife. Da Mi Zhou, do you like Wu Jiayi?"
Feizhou looked around: "Don't talk nonsense!"
Dou Dou was annoyed: "I didn't say anything nonsense!"
Feizhou looked at Doudou in confusion, not knowing why she cared about this matter. She was the least nosy person in the class. Then, Doudou frowned and said, "A student from the technical school next door fell in love prematurely. The boy got the girl pregnant, and the girl was almost beaten to death by her father when she got home!"
Feizhou was startled, then looking at Doudou's serious eyes, he suddenly burst into laughter.
"What are you laughing at!" Doudou kicked him.
Feizhou swore: "Mai Doudou, the relationship between Wu Jiayi and I is clearer than clear water. We have never held hands."
Doudou stared at Feizhou suspiciously. Feizhou suppressed his smile and asked, "Mai Doudou, are you worried that I will be punished for falling in love too early, or are you worried that Wu Jiayi will get her legs broken when she gets home? You should be worried about me, because you don't even know Wu Jiayi."
"Nonsense, Wu Jiayi and I were classmates in junior high school and we even lived together." Doudou turned and walked away. "Huh? You were classmates in junior high school and you even lived together?" Feizhou followed him in disbelief. How could it be possible? How could two people with completely different personalities emerge from the same environment? Feizhou couldn't figure it out.
However, after figuring out the relationship between Feizhou and Jiajia, Doudou felt relieved. Otherwise, she would really be worried that this brat Feizhou would do something unexpectedly stupid.
However, she believed that Feizhou and Jiajia were innocent, but others did not believe it.
Every high school has a few gossipy girls who don't like everyone. If they target someone, all kinds of rumors will arise for no reason. This time, the target is Jiajia and Feizhou. Although Feizhou has poor grades, he is handsome and can attract a lot of girls. Feizhou and Jiajia are close, and rumors spread that they are in love.
The teacher called Feizhou and Jiajia to the office. Jiajia's face turned red as blood dripping from the teacher's criticism for the first time, and her eyes were like swollen springs.
Facing the teachers' questions, Feizhou puffed out his chest and said, "These are all fabricated!" His head teacher said with a dark face, "Shut up! Who told you to talk?"
Feizhou scratched his head and looked at Jiajia worriedly.
Jiajia's head teacher sat at one side, his face livid. Tears dripped down the back of Jiajia's hand.
"You're still a crybaby, even though you're already sixteen years old." Doudou, who was leaning against the window watching the fun, said to Jiajia with disdain. Jiajia quickly wiped her tears and turned to look at her.
Doudou ranked first in math, and the head teacher treated her much better than Feizhou: "Mai Doudou, why are you here?"
"I'm here to clarify the misunderstanding." Doudou walked in from outside and stood in front of the two class teachers in a proper manner.
Her teacher asked, "What's the misunderstanding?"
Doudou said, "Everyone in the school knows that Feizhou is my good buddy, but they don't know that Wu Jiayi is my neighbor and my junior high school classmate. She and I are also very good friends. I was the one who arranged for Wu Jiayi to help Feizhou with his lessons, so they have been getting closer these days. I didn't expect that those blind girls would accuse us of being in a premature relationship! Please, don't they see what kind of role Wu Jiayi used to be? They are not even worthy of wiping Wu Jiayi's shoes!"
Although she made up lies, they were based on facts.
The two head teachers looked at each other and asked their students, "Why didn't you say so earlier?"
Doudou answered first: "I heard it all. Teacher, you don't believe what Da Mi Zhou said. Jia Jia is a good student. It was the first time she was criticized by the teacher. She was so scared that she cried. How could she say anything?"
Doudou spoke sharply, and the two class teachers didn't want to make things difficult for the children, so they gave them a few words of instruction and let them leave the office.
When walking out, Feizhou felt sorry for Jiajia, so he apologized to her.
Jia Jia shook her head, but her eyes fell on Dou Dou: "Thank you."
The girl in front of me was still dressed like a tomboy, her skin was still dark, but she looked a little smart all over. She hadn't changed much.
Doudou rolled his eyes at Jiajia and sneered softly, "You're tall but not smart!"
Jia Jia muttered silently: "It's better than growing taller but not having bigger breasts."
Doudou's ears were pointed, and his hair stood on end. "What are you talking about? Why weren't you so eloquent in the office just now?"
Jiajia hid behind Feizhou. Doudou rolled up his sleeves and pointed at Jiajia in frustration: "If you have the guts, don't hide. Come out and fight me!"
"Mai Doudou, Mai Doudou!" Feizhou stopped Doudou and told Jiajia to hurry up. For some reason, Jiajia felt very happy when she saw Doudou's angry look, so when Feizhou stopped her, she deliberately said, "Mai Doudou is tall but has no breasts! With short hair and dark skin, she doesn't look like a girl at all!" After that, she ran away.
"Ah - bastard!" Doudou gnashed her teeth and wanted to tickle Jiajia to death, but Feizhou held Doudou tightly. In fact, he was a little confused. Jiajia and Doudou didn't seem like good friends. These two girls were clearly enemies!
In front of Jiajia, Doudou became more irritable than before.
In front of Doudou, Jiajia would change her usual gentleness.
The magnetic fields of these two people are conflicting!
Those with conflicting magnetic fields are further behind.
After Jiajia scolded Doudou for not acting like a girl, she showed up at school with a pink hairpin in her short hair. Not many people noticed, but she felt awkward.
When Jiajia saw it, she and Feizhou almost fell to the ground laughing.
Dou Dou was furious: "If you laugh again, I'll kick you to death!"
Feizhou stopped laughing, but Jiajia still wanted to laugh. Doudou pointed at her nose and said, "Shut up."
Jiajia nodded, then she and Feizhou looked at each other and laughed again. It was so funny. That pink hairpin was so tacky. Kids in kindergarten wouldn't wear hairpins like that now. Doudou blushed, and the red color showed through his dark skin, which made people want to laugh even more.
Doudou was so angry that she took off her hairpin, threw it on the ground, and left angrily.
At this time, Jiajia stopped smiling. She said to Feizhou, "After school, take Doudou to No. 59 South Street Road." Feizhou didn't know what she was going to do, but agreed anyway.
After school, Feizhou finally persuaded Doudou to go to No. 59 Nanjie Road.
It was a barber shop.
