Volume 5 2013 Chapter 989 The Root of the Contradiction
It's obviously his fault, why should I think about it?
Shouldn't the person who should be considered be the one who made the mistake?
Eun-fei was a little confused by Choi Jin-ri's obviously illogical words.
He was standing firmly on my side just now, why did he change his stance now?
Quan Enfei didn't say these words, but her expression showed it clearly.
"Enfei, what do you think of someone like Haoyan?"
Of course Choi Jin-ri knew the girl's doubts, but she didn't explain and just asked a strange question.
"How's it going? How's what?"
Enfei didn't understand.
"People like him...are they common? Have you seen another one?"
"Senior, what do you mean?"
"In all aspects. Or let me ask this, Enfei, do you think Yi Haoyan is an ordinary person?"
There seemed to be something hidden in Choi Jin-ri's eyes.
ordinary?
Quan Enfei was stunned by the question.
Is your boyfriend an ordinary person?
Right? Is there anything special about international students from China? Why do you ask?
Just as she was about to answer like this, she met Choi Jin-ri's serious gaze and her heart moved.
Is he really ordinary?
Looking at it from another angle, it does seem a little different.
His Korean is very good, authentic Seoul Mandarin. If you didn’t know better, you would think he is Korean.
And it's not just now that he's like this. He was already very good when I first met him. He was very good at arguing and arguing with people.
She is good-looking and has the looks to be the face of a celebrity debut, and now she often receives invitations from scouts.
Smart, excellent in academics, and much stronger than the average academic master.
A perfect score in all subjects is a record that has never been achieved before or since, even in an art high school, even if it is only once. And he actually has the ability to get a perfect score again, but he just doesn't want the trouble.
He had a sense of the idol industry far beyond his peers and went to intern on "Weekly Idol", which turned out to be a hit.
As for stage planning, even Dream Tea's President Lee listened to his advice and modified the comeback strategy, which led to the success of Girl's Day's transformation.
Is this kind of person normal?
Quan Enfei was suddenly speechless.
"It seems you have realized it too?"
From Kwon Eun-fei's reaction, Choi Jin-ri knew that she understood what she meant.
"Over the years, I have met many talented people in SM. There are many good-looking people, outstanding dancers, unique voices, and very hard-working trainees. I have also met many successful seniors in the industry after my debut, and many of them are also amazingly talented, but none of them is like Haoyan."
Turning around and looking at the bustling night scene outside the window, Choi Jin-ri sighed, as if she was talking to Eun-fei, or as if she was muttering to herself.
There are some more outrageous things she cannot talk about, such as Girls' Generation's rise to the top, the success of "Gangnam Style", the inside story of the preparation of "Reply 1997", etc.
But just based on what Yi Haoyan has shown as a student with high art skills, it has actually long exceeded the ordinary scope.
"He is a genius in some aspects. When he was an intern, even the project director cared about his opinions. And you also said that Girl's Day's transformation and comeback was almost entirely led by him. Do you think this is normal for a 19-year-old? Maybe you are together every day and feel used to it, but I have never seen such a person before, and I haven't found another one besides Haoyan."
"Oppa is indeed very special..."
Although she has to admit the reality, Enfei has her own opinion.
"But that doesn't mean he can deny admitting he did something wrong. These are two different things."
"I know."
Zhenli smiled and seemed indifferent to the girl's insistence.
"You're not the only one who thinks so. I think so too, and it's not wrong. Because that's how it's written. Everyone is equal, and everyone must abide by the same rules. Even if Haoyan is amazing, he must respect everyone. The whole society requires this, and everyone basically abides by this rule."
She nodded, then shook her head.
"But reason is only reason, it is an idealized thing. As far as I know the real world, the real situation is not exactly like that. What I am talking about now is the reality that I know, you can listen to it.
"Although on the surface everyone is the same, you also know that the gap between people is sometimes very huge, so huge that it is unimaginable. Everyone is different. It is basically difficult to find a second person like Yi Haoyan. The abilities and talents he possesses are even more special than you can imagine. Do you understand what I mean?"
"But……"
"I know what you want to say, everyone is important. Yi Haoyan is important, Quan Enfei is important, Cui Zhenli is important. But if they are all important, then no one is important. There must be differences between people, and if there are differences, there will be high and low, it just depends on the way of measurement. In other words, people are not absolutely equal, and there must be a division between important and relatively unimportant. Do you understand what I mean?"
"But relationships require equal mutual respect!"
Eun-bi suddenly realized what the other person was talking about, and she found it hard to accept.
"I know, I know everything, but Enfei, ask yourself, are you more tolerant when you are with him?"
"I……"
Quan Enfei suddenly became speechless.
"Right? You've realized it, too. He's really great and outstanding, isn't he? So you'll actually give in. Usually when you two are together, you mainly listen to him, right? This time he went too far, so you had a fight. You've actually always thought a lot about him, but you just don't admit it. There's no such thing as a relationship where two people are completely equal, there's always one person who's in control. But that doesn't mean the other person has to obey. I'm just saying that Yi Haoyan is very special and needs to be treated in a special way. It doesn't mean he didn't do anything wrong, Enfei, do you understand?"
"But this time it's his fault."
Enfei was a little stubborn, but her tone was obviously much weaker.
"It's true that he was wrong and he should change, but not by quarreling or going into the cold war. This is actually draining your relationship."
“I’m not the one who’s wrong.”
Hearing that this sentence sounded a bit like accusation against her, Enfei couldn't help but defend herself.
"You are not at fault, so you must wait for him to reconcile and apologize? If he doesn't come, will you just keep on fighting with him? This reason is certainly reasonable, and I think you are right to do so. But——"
Cui Zhenli paused for a moment, but still made it clear.
"But - Yi Haoyan is so special. I'm not saying that you, Enfei, are not good. I don't mean that. But you should understand how extraordinary Haoyan is, right? To put it bluntly, if you really break up, do you think you can find a boyfriend like this again?"
"That assumption doesn't make a lot of sense, but I'm not bad either."
Quan Enfei's expression changed and gradually became serious.
The senior's words were very direct and touched upon the essence of the problem. In this relationship, Quan Enfei actually always knew that she was the relatively weaker party, so she had been working hard to improve herself, but no matter how she improved, she still seemed unable to catch up with Yi Haoyan.
The two were lovers and had a good relationship, but this obvious gap still made her a little concerned.
Even though she is relatively weak in the relationship, Enfei is not a weak girl. In fact, she is very opinionated.
But compared to Yi Haoyan, her strength is too weak, and her so-called opinions are often completely insignificant.
Quan Enfei feels that her opinion is important, but in Yi Haoyan's opinion, it is not as important as she thinks.
This is also the root cause of the conflict.
"I know, I don't mean to say anything bad about you."
Zhenli saw that Enfei was a little serious and smiled to comfort her.
"I just want you to think about it. If you really break up because of this, can you meet someone like this again?"
"I understand what you mean, senior, and I respect you very much."
Enfei nodded, thought about it seriously, and gave her own thoughts.
"But if we break up, I may never find someone like Haoyan Oppa. But he also won't find someone like me. Everyone in this world is unique. Maybe I'm not as good as Haoyan Oppa, but I love myself too. You said I should think more about him, I understand and agree with that, but I also have things I care about."
"Well, that's good. This is the best!"
This answer did not surprise Choi Jin-ri.
If Kwon Eun-fei didn't think this way, the two wouldn't have quarreled.
Everything that needed to be said was said, and everything that needed to be done was done. It was great and perfect.
"I'll find an opportunity to criticize Haoyan when I get back. Don't be so stubborn. Let's reconcile as soon as possible! To be honest, no one likes large-scale performances, but they have no choice because of work. Haoyan's idea is actually not a big problem. You don't have to be angry about it anymore."
"Yeah, okay."
