Volume 2 2010 Chapter 151 Love and Heartache

Yi Haoyan smiled and nodded, then began to analyze.
"At the end of 2009, the United Nations Population Development Agency announced that the global population was 6.777 billion."
"Of course, these are the world's population. Sister Enxi is not a lesbian, and there are also standards. We will screen them again based on gender and age."
"Sister is 24 years old this year. Let's assume that your lover is between 25 and 29 years old. This is actually very strict. After all, love is a magical thing. Who can guarantee that Sister Enxi will not fall in love with an older man in the future?"
"Puchi ~" Bae Joo-hyun, who had been very quiet all the time, finally couldn't help it anymore.
"Ah~ You're itching~" Sun Enxi got angry. She raised her hand threateningly, urging the boy to continue.
"Hey, in 2009, there were 277 million men aged 25-29 in the world. Sister Enxi's Mr. Right is among these 277 million. Now let's find him!"
"Let's filter by academic qualifications. The admission rates of the world's top universities are different. We can estimate an average of 10%. This means there are only 27 million candidates who meet Sister Enxi's requirements. Note that these people are basically the best."
"Around the world, people who can go to top universities basically have good family conditions. Finally, we will consider family background, eliminate those with disabilities, those with ridiculous heights and appearances, and those with bad tempers. We will consider various conditions that Sister Enxi didn't mention, but they are very important."
Yi Haoyan looked at the two people who were concentrating intently.
"I don't know how many people there are in this group. Let's be strict and count them as one in ten thousand!"
"Then we finally know that Sister Eun-hee's only lover is among these 2,700 people."
"These 2,700 people have no labels on their faces. They are scattered all over the world, with different appearances and personalities. Some of them, Sister Enxi, you may never meet in your lifetime."
"And according to your personality, you definitely can't get married to someone you don't know well. How long will it take for them to get along, understand each other, and build up feelings to the point where they can get married?"
"Let's take it a step further. Let's assume that these people are all in Seoul doing nothing but waiting in line for you to meet them. And you, Eun-hee, have a keen eye for people. You can tell if a person is your true love after just one hour of getting along with them."
"We calculated based on the normal working hours of 8 hours a day, 8 people a day, 7 days a week without rest. It would take 337.5 days for 2,700 people to watch it!"
"Under these impossible conditions, it will take almost a year for you, Sister Enxi, to find the so-called true love!"
Yi Haoyan shrugged.
"Now, do you still think love is the only one?"
Sun Eun-hee was speechless.
Although I felt very unconvinced, I couldn't find any point to refute.
"Then, what do you think love is like?" She had no choice but to ask Yi Haoyan in return.
"I don't know what kind, but it's definitely not the only one!"
Yi Haoyan said with certainty: "If you are destined to have only one lover in your life. According to my previous reasoning and this probability, everyone who claims to have found true love is the luckiest person in the world! They should buy lottery tickets, and they should win every time they buy one!"
"So, love is not the only thing. In theory, a person should meet more than one person who is suitable to accompany him/her for life. I don't know how many, but it is definitely not the only one. As long as you don't give up looking, you will always find a better one, or even meet two people who can accompany you for life at the same time. There are many such examples in reality."
"But time and energy, morality and law all constrain people's behavior. Mainstream values ​​require people to be faithful to their partners. Because love is more abstract, the constraints are mostly on the moral level, and the law mainly restricts marriage."
"Since love is not unique, people may fall in love with different people at different times, or even at the same time. How should we choose who to marry?"
"I think that one should start a relationship with the purpose of marriage, or in other words, with the purpose of being together for life!"
"Of course, without a certain degree of understanding, no one can judge whether their lover is suitable for a lifetime companionship. Many people are very sweet when they are in love, but after getting to know each other, they find that the other person has shortcomings that they cannot tolerate, and finally have to separate. This is normal!"
"All I need to do is work towards this goal. Dating is just the beginning of a life journey, and there is still a long way to go. Only when two people get along with each other, change each other, help each other, and grow together can they become lifelong companions."
"I don't know if I can get married to Kwon Eun-bi in the end."
Yi Haoyan changed the topic and talked about his first love.
"But at least we should work towards this direction. If there are practical difficulties, we should work hard to overcome them. If there are personality conflicts, we should communicate and adjust them. After all, we are lovers and have an emotional foundation. We have subjective motivation to do these things. The time that hormones take effect is always limited. People are constantly changing, and the way lovers get along with each other must also change. The final result is the result of our joint efforts. We can only take it one step at a time!"
"Not just her, even if we unfortunately broke up. I would do the same if I were to start a new relationship. Of course, we are still very young and I don't know what we will encounter in the future, but within the scope of what I can see, I don't find anything that cannot be overcome and changed."
“This is my view on love.”
Yi Haoyan's description made Sun Enxi seem to have a new understanding of this cousin who was not even 16 years old. Such a mature view of love was not what a person of his age should have.
Marriage? You are actually starting to think about marriage!
Sun Eun-hee felt it was unreal.
Bae Joo-hyun's feelings were even more complicated.
Ever since she heard with her own ears the news that Yi Haoyan and Quan Eunfei were officially dating, she had been silent. She couldn't tell what she felt in her heart, it was a mixture of various emotions.
The past events replayed in my mind.
It’s all about Yi Haoyan.
Remind yourself to pay attention to the interpersonal relationships between you and the trainees...
I was so amazed that I stared at myself in a daze.
I learned about his illness by coincidence.
With just a few words, he solved the split issue among the TVXQ seniors in the company and also helped the Girls' Generation seniors to reach the top.
Jeju Island and myself were fighting and bickering in the swimming pool...
Analyze your development direction after your debut...
He was very confident that he would go to Seoul Arts High School and take the entrance exam for Seoul National University.
The excessive joke I played on myself that night...
Predicting the team positioning of F(X) seniors and comforting Seulgi who failed in her debut.
Just one suggestion allowed F(X) to get LG's advertising endorsement.
Saying that you are feminine...
Make yourself healthy food…
Analyze your own characteristics and strengths, and develop a practice plan for debut.
Strange "experimental incident".
During the Chinese New Year, he joked about the relationship between himself and his sister.
Advice for Girls' Generation seniors to become national idols.
And there is a concept of love that is completely in line with one's own.
All kinds of past events and fragments piece together the image of a boy who is mature, talented, sunny yet gloomy.
Only then did Bae Joo-hyun realize that this boy, who was three years younger than her, had completely occupied the place in her heart that no one had ever reached.
But.
It's all too late.
He already has a girlfriend.
I clearly came earlier, but I failed to see my own heart clearly.
Faced with the pressure of debuting and the age difference, I retreated unconsciously.
I really envy that girl named Kwon Eun-bi!
He went to an arts high school without telling his parents, and despite the pressure of debuting, he chose to date without hesitation.
He must be a brave man, right?
I probably won't meet someone like Haoyan again...
I regret so much and feel so jealous!
This is the first time I feel such negative emotions!
So sad!!
I'll be later.
I can only be his sister...
That night, Pei Zhuxuan rarely had insomnia...
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