Chapter 161 What is the dream?
"Dear listeners, welcome back again. Before we welcome the second part of the emotional hotline, we will need about ten minutes to wrap up some of the questions in the first half!"
"Cui Minxi, have you figured out the answer now?"
Zheng Xiuheng's words finally changed Cui Minxi's tangled expression. It didn't take long for her to calm down. Looking up at Zheng Xiuheng, Cui Minxi replied in a low voice: "Maybe... I will choose family!"
There was a brief silence, with only the sound of music passing by. Zheng Xiuheng looked at Cui Minxi who seemed to have lost his vitality, but he didn't react much. He just smiled and said, "In fact, such an assumption is not very feasible. It's like the question of who to save first when boys face their mother and girlfriend falling into the water. Assumptions are always assumptions, and only what happens is reality. However, it is also because of this that even assumptions have the possibility of happening, and most people tend to choose the realistic option!"
“Dreams and life sometimes conflict with each other!”
"As for Choi Min-hee's current distress and what she is facing, many people are actually going through it. I have seen a lot of encouraging messages. Although there are many insulting messages, I have already read a lot of them. Now I will read some positive messages!"
"The listener with the last number 4898 said that although he did not agree with DJ Choi Min-hee's approach, he admired his courage and hoped that he could realize his dream. However, since DJ Choi Min-hee was so reluctant to be a radio host, why was he specially recruited?"
Zheng Xiuheng was very excited at the moment, and subconsciously took off his glasses and put them aside, and continued to reply: "I don't know about this, but DJ Cui Minxi did graduate from the Broadcasting Department of Korea University. Of course, this is just what I know. It's really a good thing to have the audience give encouragement now!"
"Listener 8421 here said, I actually wanted to be a fashion designer before, but my father insisted that I study economics and management. I compromised after a weak resistance. Now it has been four years since I graduated. I am doing an ordinary clerical job, going to work, going home, resting, listening to music and radio programs. I thought everyone's choice should be like this, but after hearing about DJ Choi Min-hee, I suddenly regretted it a little. Maybe when you are young... there is nothing wrong with being rebellious. I support him and hope he can succeed instead of becoming someone like me!"
At this moment, Cui Minxi's expression became extremely surprised, as if he could not react. He probably did not expect that someone would encourage him.
Of course, the encouraging text messages are like a grain of sand in the ocean, but they are just picked out.
Choi Min-hee's story was not something Zheng Xiuheng wanted to tell from beginning to end, so it was time to end it now.
"I don't usually communicate with Choi Min-hee. His behavior seems . I called him childish in front of him. Even now that I know the reason, my evaluation remains unchanged!"
"Why? Because I insist on pursuing my own goals?" Choi Min-hee calmed down and asked Zheng Xiuheng with a calm look.
Zheng Xiuheng shook his head and continued to look at the display screen, saying, "No, I don't think there is anything wrong with pursuing something or having a dream. Even though I care more about some things in life, it doesn't mean that I will deny other people's pursuits. What I mean by childish is always your way!"
"Way?"
"Your behavior is still like that of an immature child. Although you are persistent, your rebelliousness is childish. Turning yourself into a bad person does not mean that you have eliminated the obstacles on your way forward. If you are really persistent and mature, then you should choose to communicate, or go all out!"
Zheng Xiuheng paused and smiled, "When I say risking everything, I don't mean what you are doing. In fact, you can even think of such a childish way. Why don't you just do what you want to do? Both are things that cannot be recognized by relatives. The former brings trouble to everyone and has no benefit to others or yourself, while the latter only needs to bear everything by yourself. If you really insist on your dream, you should be mature like a man, instead of thinking like a child that as long as I defeat the whole world, I can do what I want."
This is why Zheng Xiuheng thinks Cui Minxi is immature and childish. Apart from causing trouble to others, his behavior only brings some setbacks to his parents.
According to the investigation, Zheng Xiuheng could also guess that it was probably Cui Minxi's father who wanted him to develop in the direction of a TV station, starting as an anchor, and slowly working his way up to a higher position in the production department. After working hard for a decade or so, if things went smoothly and he could get a powerful management position through connections, he would have a better life.
This is the way most parents think. No one can say that this is wrong. Only the parties involved have such rights.
But Choi Min-hee's resistance is indeed to give up everything, but it will not have much effect, and will cause more harm to others.
Of course, Zheng Xiuheng is also such a person to some extent, but the difference is that as long as he wants to do something, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, he will find a way to do it well instead of simply destroying it.
Of course, no matter how excited Zheng Xiuheng was, he would not say on the show that Choi Min-hee's approach was too childish. If he really wanted to successfully realize his dream, he should take action now and use all means and methods to pursue what he wanted.
Cui Minxi had indeed lost his usual cheerfulness at this moment. He looked a little silent and confused, and asked himself in his heart: "Is it really wrong to do this?"
Zheng Xiuheng looked at Cui Minxi's confusion and felt a little helpless. It seemed that this boy was more serious than he thought. Not only was he childish, but he was also perhaps a little stubborn.
"Choi Min-hee, if there is something you really want to do and a dream you want to fulfill, then start doing it now, or get your family's approval. Stop thinking about taking an unconventional approach or making fun of yourself. Do something that is helpful and useful to yourself, and you may be able to fulfill your dream. At least this is my opinion..."
“When we are chasing the light, we may have forgotten one thing. Even if we stay where we are, the sun will rise. So whether you move forward or backward, what you are pursuing is there. If you want to get it, all you need to do is find the closest way to it, and then... run to it!”
"The story about Choi Min-hee is almost over here. I hope that everyone can regard the things that happened at the beginning of the broadcast as the beginning of a story. Although he is not attractive, he will not be too annoying after watching the whole drama!"
Cui Minxi stared at Zheng Xiuheng . He always thought that he was quite mature and had ideals and aspirations. However, his parents had irrefutable arrangements for everything about him. He passively accepted everything until he became independent in thought in college and began to rebel.
Thinking back carefully, I stayed at home for nearly a year in order to resist my father's arrangement to join the TV station. Finally, under the tears of my mother and the scolding of my father, I came to MBC.
But although he said he had dreams, all he did was simply rebelling, destroying, and venting. In fact, although he always talked about his dreams, the efforts he made towards them really decreased after graduation. He didn't know when he became a person with a mind full of rebellious emotions.
Zheng Xiuheng's words were like a morning bell and an evening drum to Cui Minxi, which was thought-provoking. Looking back, what had he done during this period of time to realize his dream?
“It seems like I just wasted a year!”
Cui Minxi showed a bitter smile on his face, but his frown slowly relaxed at this moment.
In fact, the saying "Those who are involved in the matter are often the most confused" makes a lot of sense. Sometimes just a word of guidance from others can have a good effect. Choi Min-hee's expression gradually became firm, as if he had found the path he should take.
At this time, Zheng Xiuheng's voice rang again: "Ah, listener 5412 asked a very meaningful question that I almost overlooked. Listener 5412 said that DJ Zheng Xiuheng is a bit like a mentor in school, the kind of mentor who is really willing to chat and talk with us. DJ Zheng Xiuheng, are you a teacher? In addition, DJ Cui Minxi, please cheer up and don't do things that hurt yourself and your family. Please work hard like a man. In addition, I have a weak question, DJ Cui Minxi, what is your dream? It's not the kind of star, right?"
"The audience member in 5412 seems to be a student, but I am not a teacher. Can Choi Min-hee satisfy this audience member's question a little?" Zheng Xiuheng was also a little curious. After talking for a long time, he still didn't know what Choi Min-hee's dream was. It seemed like it was very great. To be honest, he was a little curious.
Perhaps it is because he has experienced too much. Zheng Xiuheng's life experience is much richer than Choi Minxi. His experience is not inferior to that of uncles like Yoo Hee-yeol, and even much more. Therefore, even people of the same age or a few years older than him are difficult for him to look at. As , it is even more impossible. In his eyes, Choi Minxi is more like a boy who is almost grown up. At this moment, he is also curious about what his dream is.
